Just saying, if you are incel, it is probably a function of you being feminine. You can only realize your true self by becoming the gender you were born to be.
Do you sometimes feel like you do not fit in with other men? Probably they all enjoyed masculine activities while you were super sensitive and took things hard. This is a womans brain. You probably have a woman’s brain. You were born this way and it is out of your control.
You should probably just consider what you would look like as a woman. Imagine having no hair, smooth skin, having people being comfortable with you being sensitive and light and emotional.
This only separation between YOU and this reality is gender reassignent surgery. I am here for any encouragement you may need if you are above 18.